Empathy Quotient (EQ) for adults

A comprehensive psychometric guide to the Empathy Quotient (EQ) for adults, developed by Simon Baron-Cohen and Sally Wheelwright. Explores its 60 items, 3-factor structure, reliability, validity, clinical cutoffs, and theoretical basis in Empathizing-Systemizing theory.

Dr. Mohammed Looti An academic and researcher specialized in
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Abstract

The Empathy Quotient (EQ) for adults is an internationally recognized, 60-item self-report psychometric instrument engineered by Simon Baron-Cohen and Sally Wheelwright at the Autism Research Centre (ARC), University of Cambridge. Developed in 2004 to address critical limitations in pre-existing empathy inventories—which often conflated empathy with general emotionality, sympathy, or social competence—the EQ specifically operationalizes empathy across its cognitive and affective dimensions within clinical, neurodevelopmental, and normative populations. The questionnaire comprises 40 target items assessing empathic capacity and 20 non-scored filler/distractor items designed to prevent response bias and demand characteristics. Items are evaluated along a 4-point forced-choice response format (“Strongly Agree,” “Slightly Agree,” “Slightly Disagree,” and “Strongly Disagree”) utilizing a non-symmetrical 0–1–2 scoring algorithm, yielding an aggregate score ranging from 0 to 80.

Psychometric investigations demonstrate that the EQ exhibits exceptional reliability and robust construct, convergent, and discriminant validity. Internal consistency estimates across clinical and non-clinical cohorts consistently reveal a Cronbach’s alpha between 0.90 and 0.92, accompanied by high test-retest stability (r = 0.84 to 0.97). While initially conceptualized as a unifactorial measure of generalized empathy, subsequent exploratory and confirmatory factor analyses, most notably by Lawrence et al. (2004), have established a stable three-factor structure comprising Cognitive Empathy, Emotional Reactivity, and Social Skills. Clinically, the EQ functions as a sensitive screening adjunct for autism spectrum conditions (ASC), demonstrating pronounced discriminative validity: adults diagnosed with Asperger syndrome or high-functioning autism score significantly lower (mean score approximately 20–22) compared to neurotypical populations, where normative sex differences also emerge (females scoring higher on average than males). The instrument remains a cornerstone in social neuroscience, cognitive psychiatry, and differential psychology.

Keywords

Empathy Quotient, EQ, Simon Baron-Cohen, cognitive empathy, affective empathy, theory of mind, autism spectrum conditions, psychometrics, empathizing-systemizing theory, social neuroscience, social impairment, psychological assessment

Authors

The Empathy Quotient (EQ) was conceived and validated by leading researchers at the University of Cambridge:

  • Professor Sir Simon Baron-Cohen, Ph.D., FBA, FMedSci: Professor of Developmental Psychopathology, Director of the Autism Research Centre (ARC), Department of Psychiatry, University of Cambridge, and Fellow of Trinity College, Cambridge, United Kingdom. Baron-Cohen is globally renowned for pioneering work on the Theory of Mind (ToM) hypothesis of autism, the Empathizing-Systemizing (E-S) theory, and the Extreme Male Brain (EMB) theory of neurodevelopmental divergence.
  • Sally Wheelwright, M.Sc.: Senior Research Project Manager and Psychometrician at the Autism Research Centre, Department of Psychiatry, University of Cambridge, Cambridge, United Kingdom. Wheelwright has co-authored seminal diagnostic and screening instruments, including the Autism Spectrum Quotient (AQ) and the Systemizing Quotient (SQ).

Significant psychometric refinement and factor-analytic structural validation were conducted in partnership with independent psychometricians, including E. J. Lawrence, P. Shaw, D. Baker, and Anthony S. David at the Section of Cognitive Neuropsychiatry, Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology & Neuroscience (IoPPN), King’s College London, United Kingdom.

Purpose

The primary clinical and empirical purpose of the Empathy Quotient is to provide a brief, standardized, and theoretically grounded dimensional assessment of empathy in adults (aged 16 and older) across both neurotypical and clinical populations. Prior to the inception of the EQ, established psychometric inventories—such as the Interpersonal Reactivity Index (IRI) developed by Mark Davis or the Questionnaire Measure of Emotional Empathy (QMEE) by Mehrabian and Epstein—were often criticized for confounding empathy with personal distress, generalized emotional lability, neurotic anxiety, and moralizing social attitudes. Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright designed the EQ to overcome these theoretical and methodological ambiguities, establishing a tool focused purely on the respondent’s capacity to identify another person’s mental and affective state, predict their behavior, and experience an appropriate, congruent emotional reaction.

From an applied perspective, the EQ fulfills several vital functions:

  • Neurodevelopmental Screening and Diagnostic Assessment: In clinical psychology, neuropsychology, and psychiatry, the EQ serves as an adjunct assessment to identify social-communication impairments characteristic of autism spectrum conditions (including what was historically categorized under DSM-IV and ICD-10 as Asperger syndrome). Empirical cutoffs (scores ≤ 30) assist clinicians in flagging profound empathic attunement deficits that warrant comprehensive multidisciplinary evaluation.
  • Differential Diagnosis and Neuropsychiatric Profiling: The scale aids in dissociating the empathic profile of autism spectrum conditions from other psychological conditions characterized by social disturbances, such as psychopathy, antisocial personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, and alexithymia. While psychopathy typically features intact cognitive empathy (intact mentalizing) paired with deficient affective empathy, autism frequently presents the reverse or a co-occurring disruption in both intuitive cognitive mentalizing and communicative social fluidity.
  • Empirical Research in Social Neuroscience and Cognitive Science: The EQ is widely utilized to test neurobiological and cognitive hypotheses, particularly the Empathizing-Systemizing (E-S) model of cognitive architecture. Researchers integrate EQ metrics into functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging (fMRI), electroencephalography (EEG), eye-tracking, and molecular genetic paradigms to map the neural correlates of socio-emotional processing.
  • Normative Population Profiling: Because empathy is a continuous, normally distributed psychological trait, the EQ provides insight into everyday interpersonal differences, communication styles, relational dynamics, and occupational inclinations within the general community.

Psychological Construct

Empathy is a multi-layered psychological construct involving both cold (cognitive) information processing and warm (affective) experiential components. The construct operationalized by the Empathy Quotient captures an individual’s natural predisposition to spontaneously understand the cognitive perspectives and emotional states of others, as well as to feel an affective resonance that guides prosocial engagement. Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright (2004) explicitly defined empathy as consisting of two essential operational criteria: (1) the cognitive component, which entails the capacity to attribute mental states (beliefs, desires, intentions, feelings) to another person and deduce their thoughts or behaviors; and (2) the affective component, which denotes experiencing an appropriate emotional reaction provoked by and tailored to the other person’s psychological state.

Through psychometric decompositions—most notably the seminal three-factor structural model verified by Lawrence et al. (2004)—the construct measured by the EQ is parsed into three distinct but deeply interrelated latent dimensions:

1. Cognitive Empathy

Cognitive empathy reflects the deliberate or intuitive act of perspective-taking, also referred to as mentalizing or Theory of Mind. It represents an intellectual, inferential grasp of what someone else is thinking, feeling, or intending. An individual with robust cognitive empathy can rapidly decipher subtle facial expressions, interpret vocal intonation, decode subtext, and identify non-literal communicative nuances (such as sarcasm, irony, or deception). Within the EQ, this dimension is exemplified by statements such as: “I can easily tell if someone else wants to enter a conversation” (Item 1), “I can pick up quickly if someone says one thing but means another” (Item 19), and “I can tell if someone is masking their true emotion” (Item 55). Individuals with low cognitive empathy often report feeling puzzled by unwritten social cues or misjudging interpersonal dynamics.

2. Emotional Reactivity

Emotional reactivity (or affective empathy) entails the visceral, emotional resonance experienced in response to another person’s emotional condition. It distinguishes genuine social empathy from clinical detachment. Rather than mere mental state attribution, emotional reactivity requires an individual to be affected by the emotional valence of another, manifesting as compassion, sympathy, or shared joy. In the EQ, emotional reactivity is evaluated by items such as: “Seeing people cry doesn’t really upset me” (Item 32, reverse-scored), “It upsets me to see an animal in pain” (Item 38), and “I get upset if I see people suffering on news programs” (Item 42). This facet captures the warm affective motivation that compels individuals to comfort, support, or alleviate the distress of others.

3. Social Skills

The social skills dimension measures the behavioral and interpersonal fluency through which an individual deploys empathic insights in real-time interactions. While an individual might possess theoretical cognitive empathy, practical social fluency governs how tactfully, instinctively, and comfortably they navigate live, dynamic human interaction. This subconstruct encompasses spontaneous social tact, awareness of social boundaries, sensitivity to conversational etiquette, and avoidance of social faux pas. In the EQ, this is evaluated by items such as: “I find it hard to know what to do in a social situation” (Item 8, reverse-scored), “I often find it difficult to judge if something is rude or polite” (Item 14, reverse-scored), and “I am very blunt, which some people take to be rudeness, even though this is unintentional” (Item 34, reverse-scored).

Theoretical Framework

The theoretical architecture of the Empathy Quotient is fundamentally rooted in Empathizing–Systemizing (E-S) Theory, developed by Simon Baron-Cohen (2002, 2003, 2009). The E-S framework conceptualizes human psychological diversity across two independent, primary cognitive axes:

  • Empathizing (E): The drive to identify emotions and thoughts, to predict a person’s behavior, and to respond with an appropriate emotion. Empathizing allows individuals to navigate the unpredictable world of human relationships, which cannot be mastered through rigid deterministic rules.
  • Systemizing (S): The drive to analyze, construct, and predict the behavior of rule-based systems (e.g., mechanical devices, mathematical formulae, computational algorithms, musical structures, or taxonomy). Systemizing requires extracting the underlying “if-then” rules that govern a deterministic, non-agentic system.

According to E-S theory, individual cognitive profiles are determined by the statistical discrepancy between an individual’s empathizing and systemizing abilities. Baron-Cohen defined five distinct cognitive brain profiles: Type E (Empathizing > Systemizing), Type S (Systemizing > Empathizing), Type B (Balanced: Empathizing ≈ Systemizing), Extreme Type E (Empathizing >> Systemizing), and Extreme Type S (Systemizing >> Empathizing).

The E-S framework directly underpins the Extreme Male Brain (EMB) theory of autism. Baron-Cohen observed that in normative populations, biological sex differences emerge across these domains: on average, females score significantly higher on measures of empathizing, whereas males score higher on measures of systemizing. Crucially, the EMB theory does not suggest that all men are autistic or that all women are non-autistic; rather, it posits that autism represents a cognitive neurodevelopmental phenotype where systemizing faculties are intact or hyper-developed, while empathizing mechanisms are severely underdeveloped or delayed.

At the neurobiological level, the theoretical underpinnings of the EQ intersect with modern social neuroscience. Empathic processing recruits a dual-stream neuroanatomical circuit. Cognitive empathy and mentalizing rely on the mentalizing network, which encompasses the medial prefrontal cortex (mPFC), the temporoparietal junction (TPJ), the precuneus, and the temporal poles. Affective empathy and emotional reactivity are mediated by the mirror neuron system and limbic-paralimbic circuits, primarily the anterior insula (AI) and the anterior midcingulate cortex (aMCC). By capturing both mentalizing capacity and affective responsiveness, the EQ translates these distributed neurocognitive processes into an accessible, ecologically valid psychometric metric.

Validity

Extensive psychometric investigations have established that the Empathy Quotient possesses high construct, convergent, discriminant, and criterion-related validity across varied cross-cultural, clinical, and community samples.

Construct and Known-Groups Validity

Construct validity was initially established by Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright (2004) through known-groups validation. The scale was administered to a clinical sample of adults diagnosed with Asperger syndrome or high-functioning autism (n = 90) alongside a large non-clinical control group (n = 197). The mean EQ score for the autistic group was 20.4 (SD = 11.6), which was strikingly lower than that of the general population control group (M = 42.1, SD = 10.6; t = 15.6, p < 0.0001). Furthermore, within the non-clinical sample, the instrument successfully captured hypothesized biological sex differences: females achieved a mean score of 47.2 (SD = 10.2), significantly outscoring males, who achieved a mean score of 41.8 (SD = 11.2; p < 0.001). This divergence firmly validates the instrument’s sensitivity to the constructs posited by the E-S and EMB models.

Convergent Validity

Convergent validity has been repeatedly corroborated against established measures of empathy and social cognition:

  • Interpersonal Reactivity Index (IRI): Lawrence et al. (2004) demonstrated strong, statistically significant correlations between the EQ total score and the IRI’s Empathic Concern subscale (r = 0.68, p < 0.001) and Perspective Taking subscale (r = 0.56, p < 0.001). Conversely, the EQ demonstrated weak or inverse associations with the IRI’s Personal Distress subscale, confirming that the EQ measures productive empathic engagement rather than self-oriented emotional panic or dysregulation.
  • Reading the Mind in the Eyes Test (RMET): Performance on the RMET—an objective performance test measuring mental-state decoding from human ocular regions—correlates positively with EQ scores (r values typically ranging between 0.30 and 0.45), demonstrating convergence between self-reported empathy and actual cognitive socio-perceptual skill.

Discriminant and Criterion Validity

The EQ demonstrates robust discriminant validity against general cognitive ability; scores on the EQ do not correlate significantly with full-scale, verbal, or performance IQ as assessed by the Wechsler Adult Intelligence Scale (WAIS), confirming that the instrument assesses social-affective capacity rather than generalized intellect. Additionally, the EQ demonstrates divergent validity when contrasted with the Systemizing Quotient (SQ), yielding orthogonal or slight inverse correlations in general populations. In terms of criterion validity, an EQ score of ≤ 30 correctly classifies over 81% of individuals with autism spectrum conditions while maintaining low false-positive rates in non-clinical cohorts.

Reliability

The Empathy Quotient exhibits strong internal consistency and temporal stability across diverse clinical and cross-cultural psychometric assessments:

Internal Consistency

In the original validation study by Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright (2004), the internal consistency of the 40 scored items was evaluated among 197 general population adults and 90 clinical participants, yielding an overall Cronbach’s alpha of α = 0.92. In an independent, comprehensive psychometric analysis by Lawrence et al. (2004) involving a general population sample of 101 adults, Cronbach’s alpha was identical at α = 0.92. Subscale reliabilities within the three-factor solution also demonstrate good to excellent consistency:

  • Cognitive Empathy: α = 0.85 to 0.89
  • Emotional Reactivity: α = 0.72 to 0.80
  • Social Skills: α = 0.71 to 0.76

International adaptations of the EQ—including French (Berthoz et al., 2008), Italian (Preti et al., 2011), Dutch (Groen et al., 2015), and Japanese (Wakabayashi et al., 2006) versions—consistently confirm robust internal reliability, with alpha coefficients routinely exceeding 0.85 for the total scale.

Test-Retest Reliability

The temporal stability of the EQ has been verified across various intervals. Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright (2004) re-administered the EQ to a subsample of control participants after a 12-month interval, identifying an exceptional test-retest correlation coefficient of r = 0.97 (p < 0.0001). Lawrence et al. (2004) tested stability across a shorter, 3-to-12-week test-retest window, reporting an intra-class correlation coefficient of r = 0.84. These findings demonstrate that the EQ measures a stable, enduring psychological trait rather than transient mood states or situational social fluctuations.

Factor Analysis

Although the EQ was initially conceptualized as a unidimensional instrument reflecting an integrated capacity for empathy, empirical factor-analytic investigations have resolved a distinct, replicable multidimensional structure.

Exploratory Factor Analysis (EFA)

Lawrence, Shaw, Baker, Baron-Cohen, and David (2004) executed the first systematic exploratory factor analysis using Principal Component Analysis (PCA) with both Varimax (orthogonal) and Promax (oblique) rotations on the 40 scored items. Scree plot examination and eigenvalue analysis identified three primary factors accounting for substantial cumulative variance:

  • Factor 1: Cognitive Empathy (eigenvalue ≈ 8.87, accounting for ~22.2% of the variance). This factor loaded heavily on 11 items assessing the spontaneous cognitive decoding of internal states, minds, and non-verbal cues (e.g., Item 25: “I am good at predicting how someone will feel”; Item 52: “I can tune into how someone else feels rapidly and intuitively”).
  • Factor 2: Emotional Reactivity (eigenvalue ≈ 3.03, accounting for ~7.6% of the variance). This factor captured 11 items tapping affective resonance, moral distress, and visceral reactivity to distress in others (e.g., Item 42: “I get upset if I see people suffering on news programs”; Item 59: “I tend to get emotionally involved with a friend’s problems”).
  • Factor 3: Social Skills (eigenvalue ≈ 1.83, accounting for ~4.6% of the variance). This factor loaded on 6 items evaluating spontaneous conversational navigation, social ease, and awareness of faux pas (e.g., Item 8: “I find it hard to know what to do in a social situation”; Item 35: “I don’t find social situations confusing”).

Confirmatory Factor Analysis (CFA)

Subsequent confirmatory factor analyses by Muncer and Ling (2006), Allison et al. (2011), and Berthoz et al. (2008) have compared the fit of competing structural configurations: unidimensional, correlated three-factor, and hierarchical bifactor models. These structural assessments have consistently confirmed that the three-factor oblique model and a bifactor model (a general empathy factor alongside cognitive and affective group factors) provide a substantially superior fit to the data compared to a single-factor model. Standard fit indices for the Lawrence et al. three-factor model across cross-cultural studies generally display adequate to strong fit metrics (Comparative Fit Index [CFI] > 0.90; Tucker-Lewis Index [TLI] > 0.90; Root Mean Square Error of Approximation [RMSEA] ≤ 0.05–0.06).

Instrument / Measurement Tool

  • Test Type: Self-report psychological inventory for adults.
  • Target Population: Adults aged 16 years and older; suitable for clinical groups (neurodevelopmental, psychiatric) and the general population.
  • Item Count: 60 items total (40 empathy items scored; 20 filler/distractor items not scored).
  • Filler Items: Items 2, 3, 5, 7, 9, 13, 16, 17, 20, 23, 24, 30, 31, 33, 40, 45, 47, 51, 53, and 56 are distractor items included to disrupt response perseveration and mask the test’s explicit focus; they are scored 0 regardless of response.
  • Response Format: 4-point forced-choice Likert scale:
    • Strongly Agree
    • Slightly Agree
    • Slightly Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Scoring Methodology:
    • Each of the 40 target items is scored on a non-symmetrical 0–1–2 scale.
    • An individual scores 2 points if they display the empathic response strongly, 1 point if they display it mildly, and 0 points if they answer contrary to the empathic response. This prevents extreme-response style inflation.
    • Positively Scored Items (empathic response is “Agree”): Items 1, 6, 19, 22, 25, 26, 35, 36, 37, 38, 41, 42, 43, 44, 52, 54, 55, 57, 58, 59, 60.
      • Strongly Agree = 2 points
      • Slightly Agree = 1 point
      • Slightly Disagree = 0 points
      • Strongly Disagree = 0 points
    • Negatively Scored Items (empathic response is “Disagree”): Items 4, 8, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 18, 21, 27, 28, 29, 32, 34, 39, 46, 48, 49, 50.
      • Strongly Disagree = 2 points
      • Slightly Disagree = 1 point
      • Slightly Agree = 0 points
      • Strongly Agree = 0 points
  • Score Range: 0 to 80 points.
    • 0–30: Significantly below average empathic capacity. Over 80% of adults diagnosed with Asperger syndrome or high-functioning autism score in this range. A score ≤ 30 is clinically useful as a diagnostic screening indicator.
    • 31–43: Average empathy range for adult males (normative male mean ≈ 42).
    • 44–52: Average empathy range for adult females (normative female mean ≈ 47).
    • 53–63: Above average empathic capacity.
    • 64–80: Very high empathic attunement.
  • Administration Time: Approximately 10 to 15 minutes.

Permissions & Fee and Test Year

The Empathy Quotient was officially published in 2004 by Simon Baron-Cohen and Sally Wheelwright in the Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders. The Autism Research Centre (ARC) at the University of Cambridge provides the Empathy Quotient as an open-access instrument for academic, non-commercial research, educational, and clinical purposes. There is no fee required for clinical or academic use. Researchers and clinicians are granted permission to download, administer, and reproduce the EQ, provided proper citation is given to Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright (2004) and no modifications are made to the scale items or scoring keys. Commercial software integrations, commercial diagnostic platforms, or for-profit publications require formal licensing permission from the Autism Research Centre.

References

  • Allison, C., Baron-Cohen, S., Wheelwright, S. J., Stone, M. H., & Muncer, S. J. (2011). Psychometric analysis of the Empathy Quotient (EQ). Autism Research, 4(1), 47–57. https://doi.org/10.1002/aur.173
  • Baron-Cohen, S. (2002). The extreme male brain theory of autism. Trends in Cognitive Sciences, 6(6), 248–254. https://doi.org/10.1016/S1364-6613(02)01904-6
  • Baron-Cohen, S. (2009). The empathizing–systemizing (E-S) theory of autism. Annals of the New York Academy of Sciences, 1156(1), 68–80. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1749-6632.2009.04415.x
  • Baron-Cohen, S., & Wheelwright, S. (2004). The Empathy Quotient: An investigation of adults with Asperger syndrome or high functioning autism, and normal sex differences. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 34(2), 163–175. https://doi.org/10.1023/B:JADD.0000022607.19833.00
  • Berthoz, S., Wessa, M., Kedia, G., Wicker, B., & Grèzes, J. (2008). Cross-cultural validation of the Empathy Quotient in a French-speaking sample. Canadian Journal of Psychiatry, 53(7), 469–477. https://doi.org/10.1177/070674370805300712
  • Groen, Y., Wijers, A. A., Tucha, O., & Althaus, M. (2015). Are there sex differences in empathy and its cognitive and affective subcomponents? PloS ONE, 10(5), e0126990. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0126990
  • Lawrence, E. J., Shaw, P., Baker, D., Baron-Cohen, S., & David, A. S. (2004). Measuring empathy: Reliability and validity of the Empathy Quotient. Psychological Medicine, 34(5), 911–919. https://doi.org/10.1017/S0033291703001624
  • Muncer, S. J., & Ling, J. (2006). Psychometric analysis of the Empathy Quotient (EQ) scale. Personality and Individual Differences, 40(6), 1111–1119. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2005.09.020
  • Preti, A., Vellante, M., Baron-Cohen, S., Zucca, G., Petretto, D. R., & Masala, C. (2011). The Empathy Quotient: A cross-cultural comparison of the Italian version. Cognitive Neuropsychiatry, 16(1), 50–70. https://doi.org/10.1080/13546801003790982
  • Wakabayashi, A., Baron-Cohen, S., Uchiyama, T., Yoshida, Y., Tojo, Y., Kuroda, M., & Wheelwright, S. (2006). The Autism-Spectrum Quotient (AQ) and Empathy Quotient (EQ) in Japan: Cultural and gender differences. Autism, 11(4), 357–366. https://doi.org/10.1177/1362361307078837

Items of the Scale

Below are the authentic scale items in their original language as published in the standard psychometric validation studies, without modification or translation to preserve instrument validity and reliability:

Instructions: Below is a list of statements. Please read each statement carefully and rate how strongly you agree or disagree with it. There are no right or wrong answers, or trick questions.

Response Options: Strongly Agree | Slightly Agree | Slightly Disagree | Strongly Disagree

  1. I can easily tell if someone else wants to enter a conversation.
  2. I prefer animals to humans.
  3. I try to keep up with the current trends and fashions.
  4. I find it difficult to explain to others things that I understand easily, when they don’t understand it the first time.
  5. I dream most nights.
  6. I really enjoy caring for other people.
  7. I try to solve my own problems rather than discussing them with others.
  8. I find it hard to know what to do in a social situation.
  9. I am at my best first thing in the morning.
  10. People often tell me that I went too far in driving my point home in a discussion.
  11. It doesn’t bother me too much if I am late meeting a friend.
  12. Friendships and relationships are just too difficult, so I tend not to bother with them.
  13. I would never break a law, no matter how minor.
  14. I often find it difficult to judge if something is rude or polite.
  15. In a conversation, I tend to focus on my own thoughts rather than on what my listener might be thinking.
  16. I prefer practical jokes to verbal humor.
  17. I live life for today rather than the future.
  18. When I was a child, I enjoyed cutting up worms to see what would happen.
  19. I can pick up quickly if someone says one thing but means another.
  20. I tend to have very strong opinions about morality.
  21. It is hard for me to see why some things upset people so much.
  22. I find it easy to put myself in somebody else’s shoes.
  23. I think that good manners are the most important thing a parent can teach their child.
  24. I like to do things on the spur of the moment.
  25. I am good at predicting how someone will feel.
  26. I am quick to spot when someone in a group is feeling awkward or uncomfortable.
  27. If I say something that someone else is offended by, I think that that’s their problem, not mine.
  28. If anyone asked me if I liked their haircut, I would reply truthfully, even if I didn’t like it.
  29. I can’t always see why someone should have felt offended by a remark.
  30. People often tell me that I am very unpredictable.
  31. I enjoy being the center of attention at any social gathering.
  32. Seeing people cry doesn’t really upset me.
  33. I enjoy having discussions about politics.
  34. I am very blunt, which some people take to be rudeness, even though this is unintentional.
  35. I don’t find social situations confusing.
  36. Other people tell me I am good at understanding how they are feeling and what they are thinking.
  37. When I talk to people, I tend to talk about their experiences rather than my own.
  38. It upsets me to see an animal in pain.
  39. I am able to make decisions without being influenced by people’s feelings.
  40. I can’t relax until I have done everything I had planned to do that day.
  41. I can easily tell if someone else is interested or bored with what I am saying.
  42. I get upset if I see people suffering on news programs.
  43. Friends usually talk to me about their problems as they say that I am very understanding.
  44. I can sense if I am intruding, even if the other person doesn’t tell me.
  45. I often start new hobbies, but quickly become bored with them and move on to something else.
  46. People sometimes tell me that I have gone too far with teasing.
  47. I would be too nervous to go on a big rollercoaster.
  48. Other people often say that I am insensitive, though I don’t always see why.
  49. If I see a stranger in a group, I think that it is up to them to make an effort to join in.
  50. I usually stay emotionally detached when watching a film.
  51. I like to be very organized in day-to-day life and often makes lists of the chores I have to do.
  52. I can tune into how someone else feels rapidly and intuitively.
  53. I don’t like to take risks.
  54. I can easily work out what another person might want to talk about.
  55. I can tell if someone is masking their true emotion.
  56. Before making a decision, I always weigh up the pros and cons.
  57. I don’t consciously work out the rules of social situations.
  58. I am good at predicting what someone will do.
  59. I tend to get emotionally involved with a friend’s problems.
  60. I can usually appreciate the other person’s viewpoint, even if I don’t agree with it.
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Looti, M. (2026, October 1). Empathy Quotient (EQ) for adults. PSYCHOLOGICAL DATABASE. https://english.arabpsychology.com/scales/empathy-quotient-eq-for-adults/
Looti, Mohammed. “Empathy Quotient (EQ) for adults.” PSYCHOLOGICAL DATABASE, 1 October 2026, https://english.arabpsychology.com/scales/empathy-quotient-eq-for-adults/.
Looti, Mohammed. “Empathy Quotient (EQ) for adults.” PSYCHOLOGICAL DATABASE. October 1, 2026. https://english.arabpsychology.com/scales/empathy-quotient-eq-for-adults/.